April 16, 2025
You’re Not Lazy — You’re Overstimulated
We examine the critical difference between genuine laziness and mental overstimulation, challenging the pervasive belief that productivity equals personal value. This episode offers a fresh perspective on why your brain deserves grace rather than guilt when feeling overwhelmed, along with practical strategies to get unstuck.
• The historical roots of hustle culture dating back to John Wesley's 18th century ideology
• True laziness vs. overstimulation: understanding when your brain is saying "I can't" rather than "I won't"
• How constant notifications, meetings, and digital overload can crash your brain's focus system
• The 10-minute anchor habit technique to create structure when motivation fails
• Using strategic AI prompts to overcome mental resistance and break through startup barriers
• Reframing "brain freeze" as your mind running on low battery, not a personal failure
Leave me a voicemail at TheMidweekMindShift.com with topics you'd like covered in future episodes. Next week we're breaking down the multitask myth and why it's frying your brain more than you think.
00:00 - The Laziness Illusion
01:22 - The Historical Roots of Hustle Culture
02:27 - Laziness vs. Overstimulation
04:25 - The 10-Minute Anchor Habit
05:29 - Using AI to Break Through Resistance
06:25 - Your Brain Deserves Better Than Burnout
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You sat down to work, you had every intention to start and then suddenly you're scrolling, you're stalling and now you're spiraling.
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Why can't I get it together?
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Why am I just being so lazy?
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But here's the thing.
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What if it's not laziness?
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What if your brain isn't broken?
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It's just overwhelmed.
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Because, let's be honest, most of us aren't slacking.
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We're maxed out, overstimulated and running on fumes.
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Let's talk about that.
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Welcome to the Midweek Mindshift little weekly resets for busy folks who want to stay sharp, protect their time and maybe even laugh a little in the process.
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I'm Bill McManaman, longtime HR pro, productivity nerd and your host.
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If you've been stuck in a fog, falling behind or quietly beating yourself up for not getting more done, this episode's for you.
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Let's push pause on the guilt.
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Your brain's trying its best.
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Let's give it something better to work with.
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Let's kick things off with a little trivia.
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Who's the 18th century thinker who helped kick off the idea that being productive equals being a good person and that if you're not constantly busy, you must be lazy?
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Answer John Wesley, founder of Methodism.
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Wesley wasn't just a preacher.
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He really leaned into the idea that idleness was a sin and that hard work was basically the fast track to virtue was a sin and that hard work was basically the fast track to virtue.
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This wasn't just about church.
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His mindset seeped into culture, into factories, schools, offices and eventually into this weird modern thing we call hustle culture.
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Now we treat rest like it's suspicious.
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If you're tired, you must be weak.
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If you're burned out, clearly you're not trying hard enough, and so our brains hit a wall.
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Instead of giving ourselves grace, we reach for shame.
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But let's be real, lazy isn't always lazy.
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Sometimes it's just our mind saying nope, this is just too much.
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So let's clear something up.
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Being lazy means you just don't want to do something.
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Being overstimulated that's your brain saying I can't do this right now.
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Totally different Overstimulation looks like this You've got 73 tabs open, instant messages going off.
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You just got out of back-to-back meetings.
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Your phone is buzzing like it's trying to launch into orbit.
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That's not a lack of effort, that's your brain trying not to crash.
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And hey, I've been there.
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One time I sat down to answer a single email, just one.
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And next thing, you know, I'm 25 minutes deep into a WWE documentary about the Undertaker.
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Not because I was lazy, because I was fried.
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My brain was like you know what sounds better than email, nostalgia and folding chairs.
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That's not a flaw, it's a red flag from your nervous system.
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When your brain's overloaded the part that helps with focus and decision-making it starts glitching.
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So you drift, you distract, you doom-scroll, then you pile on shame, which makes everything worse.
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What you actually need in those moments Space A little reset.
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Nothing fancy, just a break, quick breather.
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If you've been nodding along or if you've caught yourself calling yourself lazy lately, hit that follow button.
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New episodes land every Wednesday and they're built to help your brain exhale a little.
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And if someone in your circle, work, home, wherever needs to hear this, share it with them.
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We're all just trying to stay human in a world that runs like a notification machine.
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All right, back at it, back at it.
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Here's the truth.
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I've learned the hard way.
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When your brain's stuck in resistance mode, motivation isn't going to save the day.
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You need structure, specifically a 10-minute anchor habit.
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It's exactly what it sounds like.
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Pick a quick, useful task, something you can do in 10 minutes or less.
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Do it at the same time each day.
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Let the rhythm carry you when focus won't.
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It's not about crushing your to-do list, it's about giving your brain something predictable to hold on to.
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Here are a few examples 10 minutes of inbox cleanup before coffee.
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10 minutes outlining your top three priorities.
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10 minutes of inbox cleanup before coffee.
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10 minutes outlining your top three priorities.
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10 minutes organizing your workspace so it's less chaos and more calm.
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It doesn't need to be perfect, it just needs to be patterned, and the hardest part is just starting.
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That's where a good AI prompt can actually help.
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Use this when you're feeling scattered and stuck.
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Give me a three-step plan to start working on blank when I'm low on focus.
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As an example, give me a three-step plan to start prepping a leadership workshop when I'm mentally drained and Chat Cheapy T might come up with something like review your last meeting notes.
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List three big takeaways.
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You want people to leave with Draft one line to kick off the session.
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That's it.
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You're unstuck.
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This isn't cheating off the session.
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That's it.
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You're unstuck.
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This isn't cheating.
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It's a tool.
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Ai isn't replacing your brain, but it can give you a little nudge when you need one.
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Sometimes, all you need is one tiny step to get back in motion.
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I like to think of it this way I'm not lazy, I'm just running on low power mode with 27 apps open in the background.
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If our brains had battery levels, most of us would be blinking red before lunchtime.
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We're not failing, we're fried, and yet we still act like powering through is the answer.
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So next time you catch yourself mid-scroll, mid-spiral, mid-self-critique ask is this laziness or is it just my brain waving a tiny white flag?
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It's probably the latter and, honestly, your brain deserves a snack and a minute to breathe, not a guilt trip.
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Guilt trip.
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All right, that's your midweek mind shift.
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If this gave your inner critic a break, here's how to keep the momentum going Tap follow so you don't miss next week's episode.
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Send this to someone who's feeling behind or burned out.
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Drop a five-star review if you're liking the vibe.
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It seriously helps.
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And leave me a voicemail at TheMidweekMindShiftcom.
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I'd love to hear what you're working through or what topic you want me to tackle next.
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Next week we're breaking down the multitask myth and why it's frying your brain way more than you think.
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Until then, shift your mindset.
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Your brain deserves better than burnout dressed up as busyness.
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You're not lazy, you're overloaded, and giving yourself some breathing room, that's not slacking, that's strategy.
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I'm Bill McMenamin and I appreciate you bringing me into your world.
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Cheers until next time.
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Thank you.
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